Comments for Heather's Hair http://heathershair.com Welcome to the chronicle of my hair, Heather's Hair. Tue, 29 May 2018 13:35:15 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.7 Comment on some very nice things by Ross Hartshorn http://heathershair.com/2018/05/22/some-very-nice-things/#comment-1299 Tue, 29 May 2018 13:35:15 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1708#comment-1299 I have studiously avoided opportunities to go into management, aside from a one-year stint as a supervisor of trainees during a six-month training program. That was enough to tell me that supervising others is not what I enjoy. I think my natural personality is to prefer being a contrarian and pointing out that which people are not wanting to talk about. When one is in a position of some authority, it is more important to be diplomatic, since the same comment which was refreshingly honest as an individual contributor, becomes brutally honest and kind of disrespectful if one is an authority figure. Not for me.

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Comment on some very nice things by Pamela R Owens http://heathershair.com/2018/05/22/some-very-nice-things/#comment-1282 Sat, 26 May 2018 04:39:58 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1708#comment-1282 Glad “nice things” are happening to you. You deserve them. Love you.

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Comment on some very nice things by Craig Heninger http://heathershair.com/2018/05/22/some-very-nice-things/#comment-1266 Wed, 23 May 2018 03:42:35 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1708#comment-1266 Hi Heather,
You’ve been on my mind lately. I finally decided to see if you still had your website. Glad that you do.

Not sure if I can help but know that you still have a friend in Corvallis.

Craig

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Comment on my therapist is worried by Ross Hartshorn http://heathershair.com/2018/05/04/my-therapist-is-worried/#comment-1236 Wed, 16 May 2018 01:50:28 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1705#comment-1236 I am quite happy to know that I will be able to comment now, and it won’t just be me thinking to myself, “I should let Heather know that someone actually reads this”, but rather me actually able to do that. Thanks, Mathew!

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Comment on my therapist is worried by mathew http://heathershair.com/2018/05/04/my-therapist-is-worried/#comment-1190 Wed, 09 May 2018 14:10:23 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1705#comment-1190 OK, I guess that was the problem.

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Comment on my therapist is worried by mathew http://heathershair.com/2018/05/04/my-therapist-is-worried/#comment-1189 Wed, 09 May 2018 14:09:56 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1705#comment-1189 Test adding comment after disabling WP SpamShield plugin.

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Comment on fucking tires by mathew http://heathershair.com/2016/11/10/fucking-tires/#comment-1188 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 15:52:26 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1653#comment-1188 Depression isn’t always in waves; I think that’s more of a bipolar thing. In my experience depression is more of a long, slow descent over the course of months, so subtle that you don’t even realize it’s happening until suddenly you find yourself sitting and crying over something that doesn’t even rationally concern you.

Next time you have a flat tire, I can help with that.

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Comment on sexually explicit talk (that is your warning) by mathew http://heathershair.com/2015/12/17/sexually-explicit-talk-that-is-your-warning/#comment-1187 Fri, 18 Dec 2015 14:49:30 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1579#comment-1187 I guess the obvious question is, is denying yourself sex working for you?

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Comment on it’s raining off and on by mathew http://heathershair.com/2015/10/23/its-raining-off-and-on/#comment-1186 Mon, 26 Oct 2015 01:30:05 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1551#comment-1186 I thought about this, and here’s my possibly useless advice: I think you should go to as many speed-dating events as possible.

Here’s my reasoning: You don’t know what you are looking for in a partner. However, you seem to be pretty quick at identifying when you’re being presented with something that *isn’t* exactly what you’re looking for. In particular, you seem to be able to decide after one or two dates, which is pretty rare. You’re also clearly very particular about what you’re looking for, even if you can’t articulate what it is.

So yeah, I think your therapist is right and you need to go on lots of dates. And I think that the structure of a speed dating event would probably work well for you, even if you didn’t like it or enjoy it — not just because you’d get a lot of data, but because the environment would also play well with your independent businesslike initial demeanor, and show you in a good light.

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Comment on odd by mathew http://heathershair.com/2015/09/08/odd/#comment-1185 Tue, 08 Sep 2015 18:45:21 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1513#comment-1185 “someone informed sean” — Not me, for what it’s worth. On the one hand, it’s a public post, so it’s not strictly *secret* from him, but on the other hand, telling him would only be sowing discord. Anyway… sounds like your therapist knows what’s going on. And I don’t think you should run.

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