Comments for Heather's Hair http://heathershair.com Welcome to the chronicle of my hair, Heather's Hair. Mon, 24 Aug 2020 18:53:52 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.2.7 Comment on a list or two by Matthew Ehlers http://heathershair.com/2020/08/17/a-list-or-two/#comment-2820 Mon, 24 Aug 2020 18:53:52 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1809#comment-2820 I hope you get all your listed accomplished (esp. travel). So say we all. Happy Birthday, Matt

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Comment on a list or two by Ross Hartshorn http://heathershair.com/2020/08/17/a-list-or-two/#comment-2789 Tue, 18 Aug 2020 13:26:32 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1809#comment-2789 If you should ever be in need of a place to take your baked goods, feel free to stop by. : )

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Comment on just your average night in the 1950s by heather http://heathershair.com/2020/06/14/just-your-average-night-in-the-1950s/#comment-2671 Fri, 31 Jul 2020 00:06:24 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1784#comment-2671 i am not sure i understand being a better friend without an identity. how is that possible? how can you be there for someone if they don’t know who you are? while a stranger doing a good deed is great, it isn’t enough to sustain a sense of caring. at least, that is how it would feel to me.

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Comment on just your average night in the 1950s by name http://heathershair.com/2020/06/14/just-your-average-night-in-the-1950s/#comment-2602 Mon, 15 Jun 2020 03:51:50 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1784#comment-2602 i don’t miss people at all really. i find i’m a better friend when i don’t have an identity. and i like people more when they’re not there. does that make any sense?

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Comment on and so we find ourselves here by heather http://heathershair.com/2020/04/30/and-so-we-find-ourselves-here/#comment-2601 Sat, 13 Jun 2020 21:25:03 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1773#comment-2601 fascinating idea!

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Comment on and so we find ourselves here by name http://heathershair.com/2020/04/30/and-so-we-find-ourselves-here/#comment-2594 Tue, 02 Jun 2020 05:38:48 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1773#comment-2594 sew a dress inside of a pocket. so that it can be kept in a bag/purse/car and the pocket unfolded out into an ad hoc dress when desired. i saw a rain jacket like this once, it has to be possible.

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Comment on *float by Ross Hartshorn http://heathershair.com/2020/02/04/float/#comment-2435 Tue, 04 Feb 2020 14:21:34 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1764#comment-2435 Just FYI, getting fidgety when meditating is normal, especially for an inexperienced meditator. The longer/more frequently you do it, the easier it is to calm the mind down. But it still always is fidgety at first (for me, anyway).

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Comment on *insert title here* by Sandi http://heathershair.com/2020/01/05/1751/#comment-2431 Tue, 28 Jan 2020 06:54:02 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1751#comment-2431 You do look great!! It’s been a long time, but I still have a grateful heart for you!! Loss is hard and aging sucks!! Luggage is cute (even though I don’t like polka dots)! Keep trudging my friend!

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Comment on *insert title here* by Ross Hartshorn http://heathershair.com/2020/01/05/1751/#comment-2423 Tue, 07 Jan 2020 14:42:13 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1751#comment-2423 It is normal that a person who, at age 25, had a bajillion friends, at 50 will spend most of their time with a much smaller number (hopefully the subset which you like best). It’s also normal to not have the energy to fight every pointless battle with someone who’s clueless and going to remain that way even when rebuked. That thought process about a finite amount of time left, is called “wisdom”, and it’s a good thing (since it was always true, but now one is more aware of it).

You’re doing great! By the way, I use coffeeshops for reading, in part to avoid the feeling of being isolated. Of course, you may have unwanted company at coffeeshops more often than I do, but a book helps with that. A female co-worker of mine once told me that if you are reading a book about how to convert to Catholicism, no one would even make eye contact with you, so maybe you can just get a dustcover to put over whatever you’re actually reading?

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Comment on what makes me happy by heather http://heathershair.com/2019/06/14/what-makes-me-happy/#comment-2413 Mon, 23 Dec 2019 04:17:03 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1732#comment-2413 lots of projects. i stay VERY busy. i am going to try and work less in the new year. find someway to meet people. connect better?

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