Comments for Heather's Hair http://heathershair.com Welcome to the chronicle of my hair, Heather's Hair. Thu, 10 Nov 2016 15:52:26 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.8 Comment on fucking tires by mathew http://heathershair.com/2016/11/10/fucking-tires/#comment-1188 Thu, 10 Nov 2016 15:52:26 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1653#comment-1188 Depression isn’t always in waves; I think that’s more of a bipolar thing. In my experience depression is more of a long, slow descent over the course of months, so subtle that you don’t even realize it’s happening until suddenly you find yourself sitting and crying over something that doesn’t even rationally concern you.

Next time you have a flat tire, I can help with that.

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Comment on sexually explicit talk (that is your warning) by mathew http://heathershair.com/2015/12/17/sexually-explicit-talk-that-is-your-warning/#comment-1187 Fri, 18 Dec 2015 14:49:30 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1579#comment-1187 I guess the obvious question is, is denying yourself sex working for you?

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Comment on it’s raining off and on by mathew http://heathershair.com/2015/10/23/its-raining-off-and-on/#comment-1186 Mon, 26 Oct 2015 01:30:05 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1551#comment-1186 I thought about this, and here’s my possibly useless advice: I think you should go to as many speed-dating events as possible.

Here’s my reasoning: You don’t know what you are looking for in a partner. However, you seem to be pretty quick at identifying when you’re being presented with something that *isn’t* exactly what you’re looking for. In particular, you seem to be able to decide after one or two dates, which is pretty rare. You’re also clearly very particular about what you’re looking for, even if you can’t articulate what it is.

So yeah, I think your therapist is right and you need to go on lots of dates. And I think that the structure of a speed dating event would probably work well for you, even if you didn’t like it or enjoy it — not just because you’d get a lot of data, but because the environment would also play well with your independent businesslike initial demeanor, and show you in a good light.

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Comment on odd by mathew http://heathershair.com/2015/09/08/odd/#comment-1185 Tue, 08 Sep 2015 18:45:21 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1513#comment-1185 “someone informed sean” — Not me, for what it’s worth. On the one hand, it’s a public post, so it’s not strictly *secret* from him, but on the other hand, telling him would only be sowing discord. Anyway… sounds like your therapist knows what’s going on. And I don’t think you should run.

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Comment on blue birthday by mathew http://heathershair.com/2015/08/25/blue-birthday/#comment-1184 Sat, 05 Sep 2015 23:09:18 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1511#comment-1184 For what it’s worth, I think it was an ill-considered joke that you’re probably reading way too much into.

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Comment on details at 11… by mathew http://heathershair.com/2015/08/15/details-at-11/#comment-1183 Sun, 16 Aug 2015 13:12:14 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1504#comment-1183 I think you’re impaired. The last couple of posts, your grammar and spelling have been shot. Sounds like you’re going through a lot, but hopefully now Ross is out of the picture things will start to settle down a bit.

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Comment on dance dance dance by Pam http://heathershair.com/2015/06/12/dance-dance-dance/#comment-1182 Sat, 13 Jun 2015 01:34:51 +0000 http://heathershair.com/?p=1498#comment-1182 Dance is always wonderful medicine. I use to love to dance. I let my body lose it’s muscle memory and now I am working to get it back, but I could watch other people dance for hours. Glad you had a happy night.

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Comment on self-care by mathew http://heathershair.com/2015/05/27/self-care/#comment-1181 Fri, 29 May 2015 01:00:49 +0000 http://heather.ath0.com/?p=1496#comment-1181 I hope you haven’t _really_ become even better at hiding vulnerabilities.

Maybe next time you want to go out to dinner we should try Souper Salad or Whole Foods, and I can introduce you to vegetables. Or, have you considered Soylent?

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Comment on blondie by E http://heathershair.com/2011/09/30/blondie/#comment-855 Mon, 16 Jun 2014 17:57:06 +0000 http://www.heathershair.com/?p=1062#comment-855 You are still as beautiful as ever! Glad to see you are doing so well and doing what you love.

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Comment on definitely by Brett http://heathershair.com/2014/02/14/definitely/#comment-325 Fri, 04 Apr 2014 05:31:07 +0000 http://heather.ath0.com/?p=1454#comment-325 Need to update your site!
Hope you are well.
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