no, seriously, you all need to read this article. i had the first set of parents she talks about. and lots of therapy. but i see the article as very true. and having had the childhood i did, and being as awesome as i am (even if i need therapy to make it work) i think i prefer this way.
It’s an excellent article, but all I see is more clearly how I screwed them up. I’m hoping I missed at least some of the point.